Most people will find me a very evil mother but I did my best.
She graduated from Hubert H. Humphrey Job Corps this year and everything was looking great. She got a job unfortunately not a drivers license along with it. I had no problem driving her to work but I also kept on her to get a license. I always thought it odd that a job she was hired to work 35 hours a pay period she wasn't being scheduled those hours. She would get off early or not be scheduled for 2 weeks. I would question her about it and got a very negative Taurus response. This has been almost 3 months now.
Last night I heard a rumor....small towns ya know.
One of her co-workers had stated that she likes to leave work early and asks for a lot of days off. Well this infuriated me to say the least but I called her as she is up north on vacation with her girlfriend. Confronted her about the rumor and told her I was going to call her manager to confirm this. Already I knew she had been lying as I could hear the tears. I told her if in fact this was true she would have to move out. I'm tired of dealing with her fantasy land of make believe where her parents take care of her for life while she sits around playing games, choosing when she will work etc.
Now I'm the mom who when she got in trouble as a young child, stealing and stuff, I took her to the police personally to have a chat. I don't let her get away with nothing. I have consequences to not behaving like a responsible adult.
I called her today to give her the opprotunity to tell me the truth. She chose to not speak to me but have her girlfriend make up excuses as to why she couldn't answer the phone. By not talking to me she has confirmed that what I heard was in fact the truth.
So, she has decided to come get her shit. Time for a real world wake up call. In two months when her girlfriends mother starts threatening her life again I will direct her to the nearest shelter. Her girlfriend doesn't work either. Good Luck.
I will not rescue her again from this family that she is in such denial about.
I must turn my heart cold in order for her to start using those wings and flying.
